Arlene Bernice Van Soelen
After a long journey and many miracles, Arlene Bernice Van Soelen (nee Mans) passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family, and into the loving arms of her Heavenly Father at the age of 56 on June 12, 2025.
Dearly loved by her husband and best friend of 34 years, Michael Van Soelen. Cherished mother of Jason and Alyssa Van Soelen, Rachel Van Soelen, Kimberly and Sean Jans, and Erica and Christian VanManen. Loving Oma to her precious grandchildren, Landon, Amber, Dean, and Mattias. Treasured daughter and daughter in law of Gary and Helen Mans and (Gus+) and Jane Van Soelen. Dear sister and sister in law to Larry and Karen Mans, Elsje (Richard+) and Rick DeBoer, Carl and Hilda Van Soelen, Leonard and Lynn Snippe, Sandy Van Soelen, and Dave and Tammy Van Soelen. Arlene is also loved by many nieces, nephews, and friends.
To know Arlene was to love her. She was a bright, shining light in this world who captivated many hearts. This is true in the way her joy, smile, and laughter infected those around her, the lives she impacted through her service as registered nurse for 35 years, and her testament of God’s goodness and faithfulness in her life. Many wondered where this joy came from after hearing her story, and the hardships she endured amidst a life long battle with cancer. Her answer would be in reference to her favourite passage, Psalm 121, “My help comes from the Lord..” In all circumstances she shone Christ’s light and used her struggle to witness to the world of His blessings and mercies new each morning, and His infinite power to strengthen and sustain those who seek Him in prayer and thanksgiving. Arlene was so loved and will be so missed, but what a comfort to know she is now with her Saviour, made new in His glory, saying: “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”
Visitors will be received at Wellandport United Reformed Church, 74082 Wellandport Road Monday, June 16 from 2:00 – 4:00 pm and 6:00 – 8:00 pm. The funeral service will be held at Wellandport United Reformed Church on Tuesday at 11:00 am with the interment prior to the service at Riverside Cemetery, Wellandport at 9:30am for those who wish to attend. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to Heritage Christian School. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to JW Hart Funeral Home. Online condolences at jwhartfuneralhome.com
Sending Mike & the family our deepest condolences…”Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted” Matthew 5:4…-Jordan & Stephanie Wagter and Family
Mike. I am so very sorry to hear the news about Arlene. I met her a couple times over the years and she was always so lovely but I could always sense her presence and what she meant to you and your family through your variety of social media posts. I always got a sense of family, bonding and togetherness seeing your posts. Such a tight knit bond you all have. I hope that bond will help you through these terrible times you are going to be facing. My sincerest condolences to you my friend and your family. God bless you all. Take care Mike
As well as being a friend to Arlene, I also worked with her as a fellow registered nurse at Haldimand War Memorial Hospital in Dunnville. When she returned to work after some time off for treatment, I orientated her back to the inpatient unit. On our second shift together, one of our patients ended up having a code blue; the patient had stopped breathing and no heart beat. Arlene wasted no time and started chest compressions on this patient. I asked if she was good or if I needed to take over, and she said “nope I got this Teresa! I’m good!” The patient ended up living because of her quick actions.
Arlene, we already miss you so much. You were a shining light and an incredible example to my husband and I of what a true walk with Christ looks like.
My sincerest condolences to Arlenes family.She was such a caring dedicated person.A great comfort when I was in the hospital.May you rest in peace.
My sincerest condolences to Arlenes family.She was such a caring dedicated person.A great comfort when I was in the hospital.May you rest in peace.
Sending our deepest condolences to Mike and family at this time, what a comfort we can find in God in this trying time.
“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”
Psalm 73:26
It was an honour to have known and worked with Arlene. Deepest condolences.
I had the privilege of working with Arlene for many years in the ER. She was one of the most compassionate empathetic nurses I have ever known. She never complained and had the most amazing smile that would light up a room. Sending sympathy to her family and friends.
Our sincere condolences to Arlene’s family, she will be greatly remembered & missed💕
We had the pleasure of working together for many years with cherished memories of such a beautiful soul🥰. You all are in our thoughts & prayers 🙏🏻❤️🩹
My thoughts and prayers go out to Arlene’s family. So sad to hear this news as Arlene was a wonderful person and nurse. Forever in my thoughts 😥
Our condolences. Arlene was the sweetest person. I’ve never met someone so friendly and and full of joy. You could just see how much she loved her family. Thinking of all of you lots of love. 💕
Our sincerest condolences. Arlene was such a kind person. She touched many lives. Wishing you all strength, peace and comfort during this time.
So sorry for loss!
So many memories of sleepovers, you all doing new years together and all of us kids snoozing upstairs at your place. Funniest one is when Aunt Arlene and Uncle Brian did a shadow performance of “I feel like a woman” by Shaina Twain.
Or the time all the mom (Arlene, Michelle, Trish and Patty) all dyed their hair black, minister gave all of you ladies so many looks next Sunday service!!
I will always remember how she lit up when she greeted you and walked over for a hug, if I was ever at Dunnville ER I’d ask if she was working.
She will be missed. Love of you guys!!
Amanda Dekker
Mike, I am so sorry to hear what happened. My deepest condolences to you much strength over the next number of days and weeks.
Arlene was always a pleasure to work with. She was a beautiful, warm, kind, amazing human being, inside and out. Her warm, kind smile and caring ways lit up the room wherever she was. She will be very missed. For Arlene’s family, I am very, very sorry for your loss.
Such a great loss to this world, but what an addition of a beautiful angel to the Lord’s choir. Condolences to Mike and family from a grateful colleague. May you find comfort as you process your grief. Sue and Lee Smith
Sincere Condolences.
May Wonderful Memories be ever near.
You are in our thoughts, hearts, and Prayers.
The Battersby Family
Scott, Joanne & Children
My deepest sympathy to all of you. Arlene will be deeply missed. She made such a positive impact at HWMH for all her patients and for those of us who had the pleasure of working with her.
So sad to hear the news about Arlene an amazing woman to whom I was blessed to know and to call her my friend. She will be so missed but heaven receives a beautiful angel. Again I’m so sorry.
Prayers are with you and families . Rest in peace .
I got the pleasure of meeting Arlene at work. She was always so warm and positive you couldn’t help gravitating towards her. I wasn’t able to work with her long but she made a big impression on me in very little time. Sending prayers and strength to her family and friends. 💕
Sending our deepest sympathy to you Mike and your family and friends 🧡. May fond memories somehow help you all face each new tomorrow and feel the love and warmth of those who care for you help in your loss of such an amazing person that we all loved. Sincerely Rick and Shirley
I’m so sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. You always knew you were in the most capable, compassionate hands when you were her patient (or worked with her). Always so positive and smiling. Rest in peace, Arlene 🙏🏻 My sincerest condolences to all of her loved ones.
We will miss Arlene in many areas of our lives. She was the brightest light in any room with her beautiful smile and cheery attitude. Will miss playing volleyball with her, she always made the game fun. Into the arms of her Lord and Savior. No more pain, no more tears.
Mike: I read today of the passing of Arlene on June 12, 2025 and am truly sorry. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I am sending a long distance hug to you my Brother. Rest assured, Arlene is resting at peace in His loving arms!!! Love ya Brother and know that should you need a listening ear, I am here.
My sincere condolences to Arlene’s family. I worked with Arlene many years ago in community nursing. She always had a smile and was one of the kindest, most well liked people I have ever known. And she was a GREAT NURSE! I feel blessed to have known her. She was very much loved. May God comfort you all at this time.
A memory of Arlene. She was such a bubble of cheer! She had a positive attitude towards all of life. I shared her joy thru our league golfing years together. One funny memory I have is when we were in church on the balcony back in the day and we were all singing away and Arlene was belting it out behind us like she does, however she was on the wrong verse and I held up 3 fingers behind me to let her know which verse. It’s had us roaring about it many times!
Our condolences to you Mike and family. We are comforted that she can be praising God in Heaven now.
Love Alice and Martin
I met Arlene way back in young peoples , she was always smiling and was the sweetest girl. Also being very close with Larry all these years I always cherished knowing her. To Mike , Larry, Mr and Mrs Mans and all the rest of the family I offer my sincerest condolences to you all. Heaven has a new angel.
Our sincerest condolences to Mike and all the family. Her smile and love of everyone around her was a such a blessing and a true reflection of her love of Christ.
Arlene will be deeply missed by her colleagues at HWMH. She was a caring individual that truly displayed all the standards and values of nursing. Her calm and caring personality was always comforting to her patients. Sincere condolences to Arlene’s family during this time.
Condoleances
Mike
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family with the loss of your dear Arlene.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult days.
Kerry and Linda Boon
My deepest and most sincere sympathies to the entire family.
My sincere condolences to you Mike and family with the passing of your dear wife and mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult days. May God be your comfort and strength through it all.
Eileen Van Es
Mike, I was saddened by the news of Arlene’s passing. I hope you are able to to find peace in this sad time. I will forever hold your family photo (above) as the image in my heart and mind, of your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
Ted Warman
Mike,
My condolences to you and your family. I always enjoyed working side by side with you and hearing all your family updates over the years. You and Arlene created such a beautiful life. Your dedication to Arlene and your children is such an admirable quality. Surround yourself with family and all your precious memories now. Take care Joanne
Lydia and I , and family really appreciate the care she gave to our mother[anna mans] while she was in the Dunneville Memorial hospital . Her care was extraordinary towards our mother, wife of Albert Mans, second marriage for both . They were always very happy !! May God comfort Mike and family !!
Mike and family – Arlene was a remarkable person. Her smile and laughter brightened the lives of many. May cherished memories bring you comfort during this time. My deepest sympathies.
Our condolences to the Mans and VanSolen families. May you be comforted that her suffering is over and she rests in Christs hands.
Dear Mike and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God give you the strength you need during those difficult moments as you face the emptiness of loneliness of loosing a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother. May you find strength knowing she is now in the arms of our loving Savior. We will never forget her smile and laughter. She shared such joy and encouragement to all who met her.
Sending my condolences to the family coming from Karen Ann Haalstra Bassett and Bill William James Aliswishes Francis The Third Bassett
I’m so sorry for your loss, thinking and praying for you all! Kim and Erica, thinking of you both and your whole family at this time ! Britt Pyle
Dear Michael and family. My deepest condolences on the passing of your dear Arlene.