Frederick George Elfner “Fred” passed peacefully surrounded by family at home after a long battle with multiple health issues on August 22, 2024 in his 63rd year.
Fred will forever be missed by his loving wife Marie (nee Funke). Devoted Father of Jennifer (Jason) and Jeff (Shannon). Very proud Grandfather of Landon, Livia, Laina, Javyion, Aliyah, Ian, Emma and Chloe. Survived by his Mother Jeannine and predeceased by his father Ray. Brother of Charlie (Rita), Bob (Rosie) and Carole (Ken). Brother-in-law to Nancy (Garnet), Pat (Dave), Helen (Barry), Jim (Laura), Ralph, Midge (Neil) and Kathy (Dan). Fred will be dearly missed by many Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Nieces and Nephews.
Fred grew up in Rainham Center, married his high school sweetheart and worked as a welder at Dofasco/Arcelor Mittal for 39yrs before retiring in 2018. Over the years Fred was avidly involved in local minor and junior hockey playing, coaching and managing. He enjoyed golfing and even dabbled in baseball and umpiring. He was a Cayuga Kinsmen and Haldimand County Fire Fighter for over 15 years. A die-hard Leafs fan especially when they had a win to harass his Ottawa or Montreal loving friends. He also enjoyed being co-host with Marie to many family and friend functions, a helping hand to all but his favorite was being Marie’s technical support for her many yard displays.
Special thanks to all the Physicians and Nurses at St. Joeseph’s Healthcare Hamilton especially the ER/Urgent Care staff and the compassionate nursing staff from CBI allowing Fred to be home with his family.
Friends are invited to join the family for a celebration of Fred’s life from 4:00pm to 7:00pm Thursday August 29th at the Cayuga Kinsmen Hall, 15 Thorburn St. South in Cayuga. In remembrance of Fred, any charitable donations may be made in his name to St. Joseph’s Healthcare Hamilton- Emergency Department Renovation ( stjoesfoundation.ca). Online condolences jwhartfuneralhome.com
Jeff, Shannon, Chloe & family, we are so very sorry for your loss! Thinking of you all.
Jenn and family I am so sorry for your loss. A hug seems too little to give but I’m sending one anyway. 💞 Wendy
Sorry to hear the passing of Fred, Garnet and Brenda Matthews
Elfner family we are so sorry to hear about Fred’s passing. Our thoughts and condolences are with all at this most difficult time. Hugs
Marie and family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Fred. Sending healing prayers to all.
Condolences to the family..
Had a few pops over the years playing hockey with him..
RIP
I worked with Fred in #1 Hot mill in the eighties. A wonderful happy guy he was. A joy to be around.
My condolences.
Marie, Jen and family,
Sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers . 💔
Very sorry for your loss.
My sincere condolences to you Marie and family. Fred was such a gentle soul. He will be missed. Big hugs to you! Rest easy Fred.
Gentle giant. So sad Fred was a great person. My condolences to the family.
Marie, Jeannine, and family, we are so sorry to hear of Fred’s passing. If memory serves me right he was named after my dad (Fred Swarts) and now there are 2 less Fred’s in this world!! He was always so friendly and always had a smile when we saw each other at the family picnic. He will be missed!!! We are praying for you for the peace that only comes from Jesus. Love you
Marie and family my sincere condolences.
So sorry to hear about Fred!May God help you all through this difficult time!
Jeannine and family,
I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I remember you and Ray fondly from my time working in Farr’s office many years ago. May your memories of your son help you through this most difficult time. Take good care
My sincerest condolences to the family
so very sorry to learn of Fred’s passing condolences to the Elfner family
Marie, Jeannine and family. Our sincere sympathy to the entire family. Fred was quite the guy. Always willing to stop and have a great conversation with us wherever we met him and his quick wit made us laugh no matter what subject we were talking about. He will be missed!
Very sorry for your loss will miss him at the rink and timmys
Marie and Family
I’m so sorry to hear about Freds passing,my deepest condolences.
Sorry for loss. R.I.P. Fred.
Fred was a great kid to coach and life long friend! So sorry for everyone’s loss!
Marie, Jennifer, Jeff and extended family. Just learned and shocked of Fred’s passing. Always enjoyed my conversations with Fred at the dealership, at the arenas or on the street. So sorry for your loss and my condolences to all.
Fred was such a wonderful man who could instantly light up any room with his spirited sense of humour & quick wit! Fred was a very kind soul and his presence will surely be missed by many. My deepest condolences to Marie & Family during this difficult time. May Fred live on in all the beautiful memories you have with him. xox